I've heard this from a few places. What they are talking about is the way the new roll-off loaders work. They place most of the stress on a 1/4in piece of plate steel and the way the design is they'll slop around some over time. Frankly, I don't think I've ever read a post from an actual owner who has experienced this, but they have only been on the market for a few years. What Deere is selling is really nothing new. New Holland had made a loader that worked this way a few years ago. Deere often rehashes old technology and slaps a snazzy name on it.
Its unfortunate the dealer felt he needed to sway you this way. There are many very good features about Kubota's product. (like, it also removes in about two minutes time and most every Kubota loader has higher lift capacities, better cycle times, and a lower price). There is no need to pick on the competition.
Are there particular models you are looking at?
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